
Individual Therapy to Help You SHIFT Your Mental Health
What is Individual Therapy?
Individual therapy, also known as psychotherapy or counseling, is a personalized, one-on-one process where a client works with a therapist to explore and address personal challenges. The goal of individual therapy is to help clients gain self-awareness, develop healthier coping mechanisms, and work toward emotional healing and personal growth.
What Individual Therapy is NOT
Individual therapy is not a quick-fix solution or a place where therapists simply give advice. It is a collaborative process where both the client and therapist work together toward addressing the client’s challenges. Therapy is personalized to your needs and progresses at a pace that feels right for you. It’s a journey of self-exploration, self-empowerment, and healing. Our therapists do not offer advice but rather guide you through a process of self-discovery and growth.
The Setting
Individual therapy is typically conducted in a private, safe, and confidential environment. Whether in-person or virtually, we ensure that each session provides a comfortable space where clients can feel secure in expressing their thoughts and emotions.
Common Issues Addressed in Individual Therapy
At SHIFT, we recognize that everyone’s mental health journey is unique. Individual therapy is effective for addressing a wide range of personal challenges, including:
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Understanding Anxiety and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety is a natural response to stress, but when it becomes chronic, it can interfere with daily life. It’s more than just feeling nervous—it’s a persistent sense of worry or fear that can affect your emotions, thoughts, and physical well-being.
Types of Anxiety Disorders
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD): Chronic worry and tension about everyday situations.
Panic Disorder: Recurrent and unexpected panic attacks, causing physical symptoms like rapid heartbeat or shortness of breath.
Social Anxiety Disorder: Fear of being judged or embarrassed in social situations.
Specific Phobias: Intense fear of a specific object or situation, such as heights, spiders, or flying.
Symptoms of Anxiety: How It Might Look
Anxiety symptoms can vary, but common signs include:
Constant worry, even about small matters
Restlessness or feeling on edge
Difficulty concentrating or staying focused
Physical symptoms like a racing heart, sweating, or dizziness
These symptoms can make everyday life difficult, from work to personal relationships, leading to feelings of frustration, exhaustion, or isolation.
How SHIFT Can Help Manage Anxiety
At SHIFT, we use evidence-based strategies to help clients manage anxiety and regain a sense of control. Our approach includes:
Therapeutic Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifying and challenging negative thought patterns that fuel anxiety.
Exposure Therapy: Gradually facing feared situations in a controlled way to reduce anxiety.
Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Helping you stay present and calm in the moment.
Stress Management: Developing tools to reduce stress and prevent anxiety triggers.
Cultural Responsive Care for Communities of Color
Anxiety can show up differently across cultures, and for many in communities of color, there may be added layers of stress due to cultural expectations or systemic challenges. At SHIFT, we provide culturally competent care by integrating your unique experiences and values into the treatment plan to ensure the approach works for you.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
While online resources may provide helpful information, it’s essential to seek a professional diagnosis. Anxiety can be a symptom of other underlying issues, so a thorough assessment by a licensed mental health professional is key to receiving appropriate treatment.
Coordinated Care for Comprehensive Support
Depending on your needs, SHIFT may work alongside other healthcare professionals to provide holistic care. This coordination ensures you receive the best support, tailored to your unique challenges.
What Relief Feels Like
For many, relief from anxiety means feeling more in control of daily tasks without the overwhelming weight of constant worry. It's about being able to enjoy moments without anxiety hijacking your thoughts. You may begin to feel less exhausted by your fears, more connected with others, and able to focus on what truly matters.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
Taking the next step with SHIFT means gaining the tools and strategies needed to manage anxiety in a healthy way. It’s not about eliminating anxiety completely, but about learning how to face it with confidence and clarity. We’re here to help you build the coping skills necessary for lasting relief.
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Understanding Depressive and Mood Disorders and How SHIFT Can Help
What are Depressive and Mood Disorders?
Depressive and mood disorders affect how you feel, think, and handle daily activities. These disorders go beyond temporary sadness and can interfere with personal, professional, and social functioning. It’s not just about feeling down—it’s about a persistent low mood, lack of energy, or intense emotional fluctuations that impact quality of life.
Types of Depressive and Mood Disorders
Major Depressive Disorder (MDD): Persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest in daily activities.
Persistent Depressive Disorder (Dysthymia): A low mood lasting for two years or more, but less severe than major depression.
Bipolar Disorder: Involves extreme mood swings, including emotional highs (mania) and deep lows (depression).
Cyclothymic Disorder: Frequent mood swings that don’t meet the full criteria for bipolar disorder.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Depression that occurs at a specific time of year, typically during the winter months when there’s less sunlight.
Postpartum Depression: Depression that affects some new parents after childbirth, characterized by extreme sadness, fatigue, and emotional numbness.
Atypical Depression: A subtype of depression with symptoms like overeating, oversleeping, and a heavy feeling in the limbs, often triggered by specific events or situations.
Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD): A severe form of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) that includes mood swings, irritability, and depressive symptoms, impacting daily functioning.
Symptoms of Depressive and Mood Disorders: How It Might Look
Signs of depressive and mood disorders can vary but often include:
Persistent feelings of sadness or emptiness
Loss of interest in activities once enjoyed
Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or remembering things
Sleep disturbances (either too much or too little)
Changes in appetite or weight
Thoughts of self-harm or death
These symptoms can cause significant distress and impact relationships, work, and overall well-being, leading to feelings of isolation or helplessness.
How SHIFT Can Help Manage Depressive and Mood Disorders
At SHIFT, we provide personalized, evidence-based care to help you manage depressive and mood disorders. Our approach includes:
Therapeutic Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifying and reframing negative thought patterns that contribute to feelings of depression.
Interpersonal Therapy (IPT): Focusing on improving relationships and resolving interpersonal issues that affect mood.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Helping regulate emotions and develop healthier coping strategies.
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT): Combining mindfulness practices with cognitive therapy to prevent relapse.
Behavioral Activation: Encouraging engagement in positive, rewarding activities to combat the withdrawal that comes with depression.
Cultural Responsive Care for Communities of Color
Mood disorders may present differently in diverse communities. Cultural values, familial expectations, and external stressors, such as discrimination, can shape how depression and mood disorders are experienced. SHIFT is committed to providing culturally responsive care by recognizing the unique experiences of clients from communities of color. We tailor treatment plans to honor your cultural identity while addressing your mental health needs.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
While it may be tempting to self-diagnose based on symptoms you read online, depression and mood disorders require professional evaluation for an accurate diagnosis. A thorough assessment by a licensed therapist ensures the right course of treatment tailored to your needs.
Coordinated Care for Comprehensive Support
At SHIFT, we understand that mental health isn’t just about therapy. Depending on your needs, we may coordinate care with other professionals, such as psychiatrists, nurse practitioners, or medical providers, to ensure you receive the most comprehensive support possible.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from depressive and mood disorders can look different for everyone, but it often involves feeling more balanced, energized, and present in daily life. For many, it’s about regaining a sense of hope and enjoyment in activities that once felt dull or burdensome. Relief doesn’t mean the complete absence of symptoms, but rather gaining control and resilience so you can navigate life’s ups and downs with greater ease.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
Taking the next step with SHIFT means accessing personalized support to help you understand and manage your mood, enhance coping skills, and improve emotional well-being. We’ll work with you to develop practical tools that empower you to regain balance and confidence in your life.
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Understanding Trauma and PTSD and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Trauma and PTSD?
Trauma refers to a response to a distressing or disturbing event that overwhelms your ability to cope. PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) is a mental health condition that may develop after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event. It is not just feeling shaken up—PTSD involves ongoing emotional, physical, and psychological reactions that affect daily life, relationships, and overall well-being.
Types of Trauma and PTSD
Acute PTSD: Develops after a single, traumatic event, such as an accident, assault, or natural disaster.
Chronic PTSD: Develops after prolonged exposure to trauma, such as long-term abuse, neglect, or combat experiences.
Complex PTSD: Results from repeated or prolonged trauma, often during childhood (e.g., neglect, emotional, or physical abuse) or captivity.
Developmental Trauma Disorder: Refers to trauma experienced during childhood that can affect emotional and cognitive development and lead to difficulties in relationships and self-regulation.
Cultural Trauma: Collective trauma experienced by a community, often due to racial or ethnic oppression, genocide, war, or social injustice.
Secondary Trauma (Vicarious Trauma): Trauma experienced indirectly, such as through exposure to another person’s traumatic experiences (e.g., first responders, therapists, or caregivers).
Attachment Trauma: Arises from disrupted or unhealthy early attachment bonds, often caused by neglect, abandonment, or inconsistent caregiving.
Historical Trauma: A term that refers to trauma experienced across generations in communities, particularly affecting marginalized or oppressed groups.
Disaster Trauma: Trauma resulting from natural or man-made disasters, which can affect individuals, families, or entire communities.
Acute Stress Disorder: A condition that occurs within three days to a month after a traumatic event, which may later develop into PTSD if symptoms persist.
Symptoms of Trauma and PTSD: How It Might Look
Symptoms of trauma and PTSD can vary, but common signs include:
Intrusive Thoughts: Flashbacks, nightmares, or distressing memories of the traumatic event.
Avoidance: Staying away from people, places, or situations that remind you of the trauma.
Hyperarousal: Constantly feeling on edge, being easily startled, or hyper-vigilant.
Negative Mood and Thoughts: Persistent negative beliefs, emotional numbness, or feelings of shame and guilt.
Physical Symptoms: Chronic pain, headaches, and difficulty sleeping or concentrating due to the trauma.
These symptoms can disrupt daily life, relationships, and personal well-being, making it challenging to feel safe or emotionally stable.
How SHIFT Can Help Manage Trauma and PTSD
At SHIFT, we offer trauma-informed, personalized care to support your recovery from trauma. We integrate effective, evidence-based therapies to help you process traumatic experiences and regain emotional balance. Our approach includes:
Therapeutic Approaches
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT): Helps reframe negative thoughts and process trauma-related memories in a safe environment.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR): A specialized therapy that uses bilateral stimulation (e.g., eye movements) to process and reduce emotional distress linked to traumatic memories.
Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Involves gradually confronting trauma-related memories and triggers to reduce avoidance and increase emotional resilience.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Focuses on emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and mindfulness to help manage trauma-related emotional reactions.
Narrative Therapy: Helps clients make sense of their trauma by reframing and rewriting the story of their experiences in a way that promotes healing.
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT): Combines mindfulness practices with cognitive behavioral strategies to help reduce the impact of trauma on daily life.
Somatic Experiencing: Focuses on body awareness to help release physical tension and trauma stored in the body.
Cultural Responsive Care for Communities of Color
Trauma can manifest in unique ways within different communities, and cultural, societal, and racial trauma may be particularly impactful for communities of color. SHIFT is committed to providing culturally responsive care, recognizing the specific challenges faced by these communities, and integrating culturally relevant approaches into the therapeutic process to ensure effective, meaningful healing.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
Trauma and PTSD are complex conditions that require a professional assessment. It’s essential to consult with a licensed therapist for an accurate diagnosis. Trauma and PTSD often overlap with other mental health conditions, and receiving a thorough evaluation ensures the best treatment plan for your needs.
Coordinated Care for Comprehensive Support
Healing from trauma can be multi-dimensional. Depending on your needs, SHIFT may collaborate with other mental health professionals or medical providers to ensure the most comprehensive care possible. This holistic approach helps you achieve sustainable healing and emotional well-being.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from trauma and PTSD doesn’t mean erasing the trauma—it’s about developing a healthier relationship with it. For many, recovery means regaining a sense of control, safety, and emotional stability. It could involve feeling less triggered by reminders of the trauma, learning to regulate emotions more effectively, and rebuilding trust in oneself and others. Relief from trauma is about finding inner peace and resilience despite the painful experiences that may have once controlled your life.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
Taking the next step with SHIFT means beginning a personalized healing journey that’s tailored to your specific experiences with trauma. We provide effective, compassionate support designed to empower you with the tools needed to process your trauma, heal, and regain a sense of peace and well-being.
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Understanding Grief and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Grief?
Grief is a natural emotional response to loss—whether it's the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a major life transition, or even the loss of identity or a dream. It is not a linear process and can show up in unexpected ways, affecting your thoughts, emotions, body, and relationships. Grief is deeply personal, and there’s no "right" way to grieve.
Types of Grief
Anticipatory Grief: Grief that occurs before an impending loss, such as a terminal illness diagnosis. It involves mourning what is to come while the loss is still unfolding.
Normal Grief: The expected, natural response to a significant loss. While painful, it gradually lessens over time as you begin to adjust to life without what or who was lost.
Complicated Grief (Persistent Complex Bereavement Disorder): When grief remains intense and persistent beyond what’s considered typical, interfering with daily functioning and healing.
Disenfranchised Grief: Grief that is not openly acknowledged, socially supported, or publicly mourned, such as the loss of a pet, miscarriage, or estranged relationship.
Cumulative Grief: When multiple losses occur close together or stack over time, leading to overwhelm and emotional exhaustion.
Masked Grief: When grief manifests through other behaviors or symptoms, such as anger, anxiety, or physical illness, rather than through typical expressions of sadness.
Delayed Grief: Grief that is postponed and resurfaces later, sometimes triggered by a new loss or significant life event.
Collective Grief: Shared grief experienced by communities or societies after large-scale tragedies, such as natural disasters, mass violence, or global pandemics.
Symptoms of Grief: How It Might Look
Grief can affect every aspect of life. Some common signs include:
Emotional Symptoms: Deep sadness, anger, guilt, numbness, or a sense of emptiness.
Cognitive Symptoms: Difficulty concentrating, confusion, disbelief, or intrusive thoughts about the loss.
Physical Symptoms: Fatigue, changes in appetite or sleep, headaches, or unexplained aches.
Behavioral Symptoms: Withdrawal from others, changes in routine, or engaging in risk-taking or numbing behaviors.
Spiritual Symptoms: Questioning meaning, faith, or beliefs.
These symptoms may come in waves and often resurface on anniversaries, holidays, or other triggering moments. Everyone grieves differently, and healing is not a one-size-fits-all process.
How SHIFT Can Help You Navigate Grief and Loss
At SHIFT, we recognize that grief is a deeply human experience—and we’re here to help you move through it, not around it. Our trauma-informed, client-centered approach meets you where you are and supports your unique path to healing.
Therapeutic Approaches
Grief Counseling: Offers a supportive space to explore your loss, honor your emotions, and work through the pain of grief.
Narrative Therapy: Helps you make sense of your grief by re-authoring your story in a way that honors your experience and fosters resilience.
Complicated Grief Therapy (CGT): A structured, evidence-based approach designed to help those experiencing prolonged or stuck grief.
Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Therapy: Supports you in sitting with difficult emotions and fostering compassion for yourself through the grief journey.
Trauma-Informed Therapy: Recognizes the overlap between grief and trauma, especially when loss was sudden, violent, or complicated.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps you identify unhelpful thought patterns and build coping strategies that support emotional regulation.
Group Therapy and Support Groups: Offers connection with others who understand your pain, helping to reduce isolation and build community.
Culturally Responsive Grief Support for Communities of Color
Grief can be shaped by cultural, historical, and intergenerational experiences. At SHIFT, we are committed to offering culturally sensitive care that honors your background, beliefs, and the unique ways your community processes loss. Whether you’re navigating cultural expectations around mourning or intergenerational grief, our clinicians provide respectful and affirming support.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
While grief is not a mental illness, it can overlap with other conditions such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD—especially when the loss is traumatic or unexpected. A licensed therapist can help you differentiate between grief and other mental health challenges and guide you toward appropriate care.
Coordinated Care for Holistic Healing
Grieving can affect your whole being—emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. SHIFT offers coordinated care that may include collaboration with medical providers, spiritual care, or wellness practitioners to support you holistically through your loss.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from grief does not mean forgetting or “moving on.” It means learning to carry the loss differently—with more grace, less pain, and greater capacity for joy and meaning. For many, healing looks like being able to talk about their loved one without overwhelming sadness, finding purpose in their memory, or reclaiming hope for the future. Relief is about creating space for grief and life to coexist.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
If you're struggling with grief and loss, SHIFT is here to walk alongside you. Our team offers compassionate, individualized support to help you process your grief, honor your loss, and rediscover your strength. Healing is possible—and you don’t have to do it alone.
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Self-Esteem Issues: Understanding Low Self-Esteem and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Self-Esteem?
Self-esteem is the way we perceive and value ourselves. It shapes how we think, feel, and act in the world. Healthy self-esteem means having a balanced and realistic view of your worth, abilities, and potential. Low self-esteem, on the other hand, can lead to persistent self-doubt, harsh inner criticism, and difficulty accepting oneself—making it hard to form healthy relationships, set boundaries, or pursue goals.
Self-esteem issues can stem from early experiences, societal pressures, trauma, or repeated negative feedback from important people in our lives. When left unaddressed, low self-esteem can impact mental health, decision-making, and overall quality of life.
Types and Sources of Self-Esteem Issues
Childhood Experiences: Criticism, neglect, abuse, or lack of affirmation in early life can shape negative core beliefs about self-worth.
Comparison and Social Media: Constant comparison to others—especially in the digital age—can lead to feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness.
Perfectionism: Unrealistically high expectations and a fear of failure can erode self-esteem over time.
Bullying and Peer Rejection: Experiences of exclusion or ridicule can leave lasting emotional wounds and shape identity.
Internalized Oppression: Racism, sexism, ableism, and other systemic forces can negatively influence self-perception, especially in marginalized communities.
Failure or Setbacks: Academic, career, or relationship disappointments can lead to self-blame and diminished self-worth.
Mental Health Conditions: Depression, anxiety, trauma, and eating disorders often involve or exacerbate low self-esteem.
Symptoms of Low Self-Esteem: How It Might Look
Low self-esteem can affect every part of life. Some common signs include:
Negative Self-Talk: Harsh inner dialogue, self-criticism, and a tendency to focus on perceived flaws.
People-Pleasing: Prioritizing others’ needs over your own to gain approval or avoid rejection.
Avoidance: Fear of failure or judgment leading to avoidance of new opportunities or challenges.
Insecurity in Relationships: Difficulty trusting others, setting boundaries, or feeling “good enough.”
Difficulty Accepting Praise: Brushing off compliments or believing you’re undeserving of success or kindness.
Perfectionism or Overachievement: Linking worth to productivity or achievements to feel valuable.
Shame and Guilt: Feeling chronically flawed, unlovable, or like a burden to others.
These patterns can hold you back from living authentically, taking risks, and embracing your full potential.
How SHIFT Can Help Improve Self-Esteem
At SHIFT, we help you build a healthier relationship with yourself—one rooted in compassion, acceptance, and self-worth. Our therapeutic approach empowers you to challenge negative beliefs, rewrite your inner narrative, and reclaim your voice.
Therapeutic Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifies and reframes unhelpful thought patterns that contribute to low self-esteem.
Self-Compassion Therapy: Teaches you to replace self-criticism with kindness, acceptance, and emotional balance.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Helps with emotional regulation, building self-respect, and improving interpersonal effectiveness.
Narrative Therapy: Encourages you to rewrite your story by challenging internalized messages and creating a more empowering self-identity.
Strengths-Based Therapy: Focuses on uncovering and celebrating your strengths, values, and capabilities.
Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Therapy: Helps you observe your thoughts without judgment and build a more compassionate inner voice.
Inner Child Work: Explores early wounds and nurtures the parts of you that never received the affirmation or care they needed.
Culturally Responsive Care for Communities of Color
For individuals from marginalized communities, self-esteem may be deeply impacted by cultural invalidation, generational trauma, or experiences of racism and exclusion. At SHIFT, we honor the social and cultural realities that shape self-worth. Our clinicians provide culturally responsive care that validates your experiences and centers your identity in the healing process.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
Self-esteem issues may not always meet the criteria for a specific diagnosis, but they often co-occur with other mental health conditions. A licensed therapist can help determine whether self-esteem challenges are part of a broader issue such as depression, anxiety, or trauma—and provide a personalized plan to support healing and growth.
Coordinated Care for Holistic Growth
Improving self-esteem can involve multiple layers—emotional, cognitive, social, and even physical. SHIFT may work collaboratively with other providers, including psychiatrists, wellness coaches, or holistic practitioners, to offer you well-rounded, empowering support tailored to your unique journey.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from low self-esteem doesn’t mean becoming arrogant or overly confident—it’s about developing a steady sense of self-worth that isn’t shaken by mistakes, rejection, or comparison. It means showing up for yourself with compassion, making decisions aligned with your values, and believing that you are enough—just as you are. Over time, relief looks like setting healthy boundaries, owning your accomplishments, and feeling safe in your own skin.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
You deserve to feel confident, capable, and worthy. If you’re ready to break free from the inner critic and build a more empowered relationship with yourself, SHIFT is here for you. Our compassionate, strengths-based therapy can help you nurture self-love, develop resilience, and step into the full expression of who you are.
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Understanding Anger and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Anger?
Anger is a natural and valid human emotion. It can arise when we feel threatened, disrespected, powerless, hurt, or misunderstood. At its core, anger often signals that a boundary has been crossed or a need is unmet. While anger itself isn’t inherently bad, how we respond to it makes all the difference.
When anger becomes overwhelming, frequent, or uncontrollable, it can negatively impact relationships, work, self-esteem, and physical health. Anger management is about learning to recognize, understand, and express anger in constructive—not destructive—ways.
Types and Expressions of Anger
Passive Anger: Expressed indirectly through sarcasm, withdrawal, or resentment. It can feel like a simmering, unspoken frustration.
Aggressive Anger: Expressed through yelling, physical outbursts, threats, or intimidation. Often reactive and impulsive, it may be harmful to others.
Passive-Aggressive Anger: Involves indirect resistance, such as giving the silent treatment or sabotaging efforts, rather than openly expressing frustration.
Chronic Anger: A persistent state of irritability or resentment, often tied to unresolved trauma, injustice, or long-standing frustration.
Self-Directed Anger: Anger turned inward, often manifesting as self-criticism, shame, or self-harm.
Righteous Anger: Arises from moral or social injustices. While it can motivate action, it still requires healthy expression and boundaries.
Suppressed Anger: Pushing down anger due to fear or guilt, which can lead to emotional numbing, depression, or eventual explosive outbursts.
Symptoms of Anger Issues: How It Might Look
Anger can show up in many forms, both subtle and explosive. Signs of unmanaged anger may include:
Frequent Irritability or Frustration: Feeling constantly on edge or easily annoyed.
Physical Symptoms: Headaches, muscle tension, rapid heartbeat, or trouble sleeping.
Emotional Volatility: Intense mood swings or disproportionate reactions to small triggers.
Relationship Struggles: Conflict with loved ones, coworkers, or difficulty maintaining trust and connection.
Regret After Outbursts: Feeling guilty, ashamed, or out of control after expressing anger.
Avoidance or Numbing: Ignoring or suppressing anger until it builds up or manifests in unhealthy ways.
Unmanaged anger can lead to damaged relationships, isolation, burnout, and long-term emotional and physical consequences.
How SHIFT Can Help with Anger Management
At SHIFT, we understand that anger is often rooted in deeper emotional pain or unmet needs. Our therapeutic approach focuses on helping you explore the origins of your anger, recognize your triggers, and develop tools for expressing it in healthier, more productive ways.
Therapeutic Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns that fuel anger and impulsivity.
Anger Management Skills Training: Teaches strategies for recognizing triggers, de-escalating in the moment, and responding constructively.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Focuses on emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and mindfulness to build more balanced emotional responses.
Psychodynamic Therapy: Explores underlying emotional wounds and past experiences that may be contributing to chronic or intense anger.
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): Enhances self-awareness and the ability to pause before reacting impulsively.
Somatic Therapy: Helps connect with and release anger stored in the body through breathwork, movement, and body awareness.
Assertiveness Training: Empowers you to express needs and set boundaries without resorting to aggression or avoidance.
Culturally Responsive Support for Communities of Color
Expressions of anger are often misunderstood or pathologized in marginalized communities. At SHIFT, we honor the cultural and systemic contexts that influence how anger is experienced and expressed. Our clinicians provide a safe space to explore anger with cultural sensitivity and affirm the validity of your emotions, while also supporting healthier strategies for coping and communication.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
Anger issues may be a symptom of deeper challenges such as trauma, anxiety, depression, or ADHD. A licensed therapist can help assess the root causes and create a comprehensive treatment plan tailored to your needs. Managing anger effectively often involves addressing the emotions beneath the surface—hurt, fear, sadness, or shame.
Coordinated Care for Comprehensive Support
SHIFT offers a whole-person approach to anger management. When helpful, we may collaborate with medical professionals, psychiatrists, or wellness practitioners to ensure a supportive, integrated plan that meets your emotional and physical health needs.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from anger issues doesn't mean you stop feeling angry—it means learning how to express anger in a way that honors your truth while protecting your peace. For many, it looks like greater emotional control, healthier relationships, better communication, and an increased sense of inner calm. It's about turning anger into assertiveness, clarity, and meaningful action—without guilt or regret.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
If you’re struggling with anger, you’re not alone—and it doesn’t make you a bad person. At SHIFT, we help you uncover what your anger is trying to tell you, and we work with you to channel it in ways that heal rather than harm. Our compassionate, empowering approach can help you feel more in control, more connected, and more at peace.
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Stress: Understanding Stress and How SHIFT Can Help
What is Stress?
Stress is your body’s natural response to pressure or perceived threats. It can be triggered by anything that challenges your sense of control or well-being—whether it’s work, relationships, finances, health, or major life changes. While short-term stress can sometimes motivate us, chronic or unmanaged stress can take a serious toll on your physical, emotional, and mental health.
Stress isn't always visible, but it can deeply affect how you think, feel, and function day to day. At SHIFT, we believe stress deserves more than just a quick fix—it deserves compassionate, holistic care that gets to the root of the issue.
Types and Sources of Stress
Acute Stress: A short-term reaction to a specific event or situation (e.g., public speaking, exams, or a sudden deadline). It usually resolves once the event passes.
Chronic Stress: Ongoing stress that lasts for weeks, months, or longer. Often caused by persistent issues like financial strain, caregiving, job pressure, or unstable relationships.
Episodic Acute Stress: When someone frequently experiences intense stress due to a high-pressure lifestyle or chaotic environment. It can feel like living in a constant state of urgency.
Traumatic Stress: A severe form of stress caused by witnessing or experiencing a traumatic event. It may lead to PTSD or other long-term psychological effects.
Occupational Stress: Work-related stress caused by overwhelming demands, lack of support, discrimination, or imbalance between work and personal life.
Environmental Stress: Arising from surroundings—such as noise, pollution, crowded living conditions, or unsafe environments.
Identity-Based Stress: Stress that stems from discrimination, marginalization, or navigating spaces where one’s race, gender, sexuality, or culture is not affirmed.
Life Transition Stress: Stress caused by major life events, even positive ones—like starting a new job, getting married, becoming a parent, or moving.
Symptoms of Stress: How It Might Look
Stress can show up in your body, mind, emotions, and behaviors. Common symptoms include:
Physical Symptoms: Headaches, muscle tension, fatigue, upset stomach, or changes in sleep and appetite.
Emotional Symptoms: Anxiety, irritability, overwhelm, sadness, or a sense of helplessness.
Cognitive Symptoms: Racing thoughts, forgetfulness, difficulty concentrating, or constant worry.
Behavioral Symptoms: Withdrawing from others, procrastination, increased substance use, or changes in work performance.
If left unaddressed, stress can contribute to burnout, anxiety, depression, or physical health issues like high blood pressure and weakened immunity.
How SHIFT Can Help Manage Stress
At SHIFT, we don’t just help you “manage” stress—we help you understand its root causes, build resilience, and create sustainable coping strategies. Our therapeutic approach supports you in identifying stressors, strengthening self-care, and regaining balance in your life.
Therapeutic Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps you recognize and shift unhelpful thought patterns that amplify stress.
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): Uses meditation, breathing, and body awareness to reduce stress and promote calm.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): Encourages acceptance of difficult emotions while committing to values-based actions that reduce stress.
Somatic Therapy: Helps you release stress stored in the body and reconnect with physical cues through grounding and movement.
Solution-Focused Therapy: Helps you clarify your goals and develop practical strategies to tackle stressors with confidence.
Narrative Therapy: Supports you in separating yourself from the stress and rewriting your story in a way that empowers you.
Psychoeducation: Helps you understand the body’s stress response and learn tools to regulate it more effectively.
Culturally Responsive Support for Communities of Color
For individuals in marginalized communities, stress may be compounded by systemic inequities, cultural pressures, racial trauma, or a lack of safe spaces. At SHIFT, we understand that stress is not just personal—it can be deeply shaped by your lived experience. Our team is committed to providing culturally responsive, affirming care that supports your healing within the context of your identity.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
Stress itself is not a diagnosable disorder, but it can be a contributing factor to mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, or PTSD. A licensed therapist can help determine whether your stress is part of a broader issue and guide you toward a treatment plan tailored to your needs.
Coordinated Care for Holistic Wellness
Managing stress effectively often requires a multi-dimensional approach. SHIFT may collaborate with medical providers, wellness coaches, or mindfulness practitioners to offer comprehensive, integrative care that addresses both mind and body.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from stress means more than just feeling “less busy.” It can look like sleeping better, thinking more clearly, setting boundaries without guilt, and feeling more present in your life. It’s about reclaiming your energy, your peace, and your ability to respond to life’s challenges with confidence and clarity. Relief feels like emotional spaciousness, steadiness, and restored inner balance.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
You don’t have to power through your stress alone. Whether you’re feeling stretched too thin, constantly on edge, or emotionally drained, SHIFT is here to support you. Our compassionate, whole-person care helps you move from overwhelm to resilience—so you can show up for your life with strength, clarity, and calm.
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Life Transitions: Navigating Change and How SHIFT Can Help
What Are Life Transitions?
Life transitions are significant changes that mark a new chapter in your personal or professional journey. They can be planned or unexpected, joyful or difficult—or all of the above at once. Whether it’s starting a new career, going through a divorce, becoming a parent, relocating, retiring, or getting married, transitions often come with a mix of emotions: excitement, fear, grief, hope, uncertainty.
Even when the change is positive, transitions can disrupt routines, identities, relationships, and sense of self. At SHIFT, we believe that navigating life transitions with support can turn overwhelming moments into powerful opportunities for growth and renewal.
Common Types of Life Transitions
Career Changes: Starting a new job, losing employment, changing industries, or retiring can bring identity shifts, financial stress, and fear of the unknown.
Divorce or Breakups: Ending a relationship often brings grief, identity redefinition, and emotional upheaval—especially when children or shared assets are involved.
Marriage or Committed Partnership: Entering a new partnership brings joy and connection, but also requires adjustment, communication, and redefining independence.
Parenting and Caregiving: Becoming a parent or caregiver can alter your priorities, identity, and energy. It may bring both deep fulfillment and emotional strain.
Relocation or Immigration: Moving—especially across cities or countries—can impact your support systems, cultural connection, sense of belonging, and personal stability.
Grief and Loss: Losing a loved one changes your life story in profound ways, requiring emotional processing and adaptation to a “new normal.”
Health Changes: Coping with illness, disability, or a new diagnosis can affect your mental health, body image, and relationships.
Coming of Age or Retirement: Milestones like turning 18, 30, 50—or retiring—can trigger reflection on purpose, identity, and meaning.
Empty Nest or Children Leaving Home: Shifting from full-time parenting to rediscovering your own rhythm can bring unexpected grief and freedom.
Symptoms of Struggling with Life Transitions: How It Might Look
Even when the world sees your transition as a “normal” life event, it can feel deeply destabilizing internally. You might notice:
Emotional Distress: Anxiety, sadness, mood swings, grief, or irritability.
Identity Confusion: Feeling unsure about your role, purpose, or place in the world.
Isolation: Withdrawing from others or feeling like no one understands your experience.
Overwhelm: Difficulty making decisions, organizing tasks, or managing emotions.
Regret or Doubt: Second-guessing choices or longing for the “old” version of your life.
Physical Symptoms: Fatigue, disrupted sleep, changes in appetite, or somatic stress.
These experiences are common—and they don’t mean you’re failing. They simply signal that you’re human and moving through a major shift.
How SHIFT Can Help You Navigate Life Transitions
At SHIFT, we provide a supportive, non-judgmental space where you can process change, clarify your values, and build tools to navigate life transitions with greater confidence and calm. We help you hold space for both the grief of what’s ending and the hope of what’s beginning.
Therapeutic Approaches
Transition-Focused Counseling: Supports emotional adjustment, decision-making, and finding meaning in change.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Helps you challenge fear-based thinking, manage stress, and reframe uncertainty.
Narrative Therapy: Encourages exploration of your evolving story and identity through the lens of empowerment.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): Supports moving through discomfort while staying grounded in your values and long-term vision.
Solution-Focused Therapy: Helps you identify immediate strengths, resources, and actionable steps to regain momentum.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Builds present-moment awareness to help manage anxiety, regulate emotions, and foster resilience.
Grief Counseling: Addresses the loss that often accompanies transitions—whether it’s a person, a role, or a way of life.
Culturally Responsive Support for Communities of Color
Life transitions can be uniquely shaped by cultural expectations, intergenerational dynamics, and systemic barriers. At SHIFT, we provide culturally responsive care that affirms your identity, acknowledges social realities, and integrates your cultural values into the healing process. Whether you're navigating bicultural identities, immigration stress, or generational shifts, we're here for you.
A Quick Note on Diagnosis
Life transitions themselves are not a mental health disorder—but the stress and emotional fallout can lead to anxiety, depression, or burnout. A licensed therapist can help determine if what you’re experiencing goes beyond transitional stress and provide a treatment plan that fits your needs.
Coordinated Care for Holistic Support
At SHIFT, we take a whole-person approach to life transitions. We may collaborate with medical professionals, career coaches, parenting specialists, or community resources to support all aspects of your journey—emotional, relational, practical, and beyond.
What Relief Feels Like
Relief from the stress of life transitions doesn’t mean having everything figured out—it means trusting yourself to move forward even without all the answers. It might look like feeling more grounded in your new reality, reclaiming your voice, rediscovering joy, or simply breathing easier as you navigate the unknown. Relief is about finding your rhythm again and learning to thrive in a new chapter of life.
Taking the Next Step with SHIFT
If you’re in the middle of a life transition, you don’t have to navigate it alone. SHIFT offers compassionate, empowering support to help you process the past, embrace the present, and prepare for what’s next. Whether you’re starting over, starting fresh, or somewhere in between, we’re here to walk with you.
Effective Individual Therapy Methods Using Proven Strategies
At SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, we use a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches, tailored to your needs, to help you achieve meaningful, lasting change:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This structured approach helps you identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors, replacing them with healthier, more constructive ways of thinking and acting.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): DBT focuses on helping clients regulate emotions, improve interpersonal relationships, and develop skills to cope with distressing situations.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy: By incorporating mindfulness techniques, we help you stay present and manage overwhelming emotions, reducing anxiety and stress.
Psychodynamic Therapy: This approach explores how past experiences, unconscious patterns, and unresolved conflicts influence current behaviors, thoughts, and emotional responses.
Finding the Right Therapist Matters
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Our team is culturally diverse
With diverse backgrounds, we foster an environment where every client feels heard, recognized, and supported.
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We speak different languages
We can connect in your native language, creating comfort, trust, and a sense of belonging as you navigate your wellness journey.
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Our therapists are experienced
With expert guidance, you’ll receive personalized strategies for lasting change.
Why Use Evidence-based Methods?
Evidence-based therapy means—treatments proven effective through research. Approaches like CBT and DBT help reduce anxiety, depression, and emotional distress by targeting unhelpful thought patterns and building healthier coping skills. You’ll receive science-backed care designed for lasting, positive change.
We also prioritize culturally responsive therapy to ensure that your unique cultural background is considered in every step of the process. This approach fosters trust and understanding, ensuring therapy is relevant and respectful to your individual experience.
Our therapists create a safe, supportive space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions without judgment. We aim to equip you with tools to:
Gain insights into your emotions and behaviors
Manage mental health symptoms effectively
Cultivate long-term emotional well-being
Make meaningful, positive changes in your life
At SHIFT, your journey is unique, and we’re here to guide you with compassion, cultural awareness, and professional support every step of the way.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Here are some common questions from our clients. If you have more questions, please reach out via our contact us form, by calling 914-221-3200 or emailing Hello@shiftyourjourney.com. We are here to help with your mental health journey!
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You might benefit from therapy if you're experiencing persistent feelings of sadness, anxiety, stress, or difficulty coping with daily life. Therapy can also help with relationship issues, trauma, grief, and personal growth.
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Some common signs include:
Constant worry or anxiety
Feeling sad or hopeless
Difficulty sleeping or changes in appetite
Struggling to concentrate or make decisions
Increased irritability or mood swings
Withdrawing from loved ones
Using substances to cope
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Yes! Therapy is not just for those with diagnosed conditions. It can help with managing stress, building confidence, improving relationships, and personal growth.
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Sessions typically last 53 to 60 minutes, depending on the type of therapy and your specific needs.
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Yes! We accept various insurance plans. CLICK HERE to view the plans we currently accept. You can also Contact us to verify if your plan is covered. We are a phone call-914-221-3200 or an email away-Hello@shiftyourjourney.com.
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We offer private-pay options and may have sliding scale fees based on financial need. Contact us via our Contact form , call us at 914-221-3200 or email us at Hello@shiftyourjourney.com if you have additional questions.
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Yes! Your privacy is a top priority. Information shared in therapy is confidential, except in cases where there is a risk of harm to yourself or others.
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Culturally responsive therapy is an approach that takes into account your unique cultural background, values, and life experiences when providing counseling. It recognizes that cultural factors—like race, ethnicity, family dynamics, religion, and community—play a huge role in shaping your mental health and how you navigate challenges. At SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, we believe that understanding your culture is crucial to providing the most effective support and creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and understood.
This type of therapy is important because it helps build a trusting relationship between you and your therapist. It allows us to tailor our approach to your specific needs, ensuring that treatment isn’t “one-size-fits-all.” It acknowledges that everyone’s journey is different and that cultural considerations can deeply impact how you experience and respond to challenges. By practicing culturally responsive therapy, we help you feel more connected, supported, and empowered to take the next steps in your mental health journey.
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Yes, culturally responsive therapy is rooted in research, and numerous studies show that it can significantly improve mental health outcomes. Research has found that when therapy respects and integrates a person's cultural background, it leads to better engagement, greater trust in the therapeutic process, and more positive mental health results. Clients who feel their cultural identity is acknowledged are more likely to feel comfortable opening up, which in turn makes therapy more effective.
Incorporating cultural understanding into therapy helps address the unique challenges that may arise from cultural factors, like stigma, discrimination, or generational differences. This personalized approach not only improves emotional well-being but also empowers clients to cope with life's stresses in ways that are meaningful and relevant to their culture. So yes, culturally responsive therapy isn't just a thoughtful approach; it’s one that research shows can lead to real improvements in mental health. At SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, we use this evidence-based approach to ensure your therapy experience is both effective and truly reflective of who you are.
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Holistic therapy is an approach that looks at you as a whole person—mind, body, and spirit—rather than just focusing on one part of your experience. It recognizes that your emotional health is deeply connected to your physical health, your thoughts, your relationships, and your environment. This approach combines traditional therapeutic techniques with practices that support overall well-being, such as mindfulness, meditation, breathing exercises, nutrition, and even movement or creative expression.
Holistic therapy is important because it treats the root causes of mental health challenges, not just the symptoms. Life’s struggles often impact multiple areas of your life, and by addressing the whole person, holistic therapy helps create balance and long-term healing. It encourages you to nurture yourself in ways that promote overall wellness, not just emotional relief in the moment. At SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling, we use holistic therapy to support your mental health in a way that honors all aspects of who you are, helping you feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to yourself and the world around you.
Start Your Mental Health Journey Today
If you’re ready to explore your inner world and take charge of your mental health, individual therapy at SHIFT Your Journey Mental Health Counseling is a supportive, compassionate space where lasting change can begin. Whether you’re facing stress, anxiety, or life transitions, our team is here to help. Reach out today to start your therapy journey and experience personal growth, healing, and empowerment.